When it comes to maturing as a person, a big step in that process is the access to a car. When your teenager learns how to drive it opens up many possibilities, generally they are both good and bad opportunities. Teenagers can suddenly go on their own to illicit places, meeting people away from the watchful eye of a prudent parent. This article will help to maybe ease, or generate awareness to the benefits and dangers of teenagers with a car.
One of the best ways for you to bond with your child is to play with them. Play all sorts of games – board games, sports, pretend games, etc. Enter the child’s world and have fun! This simple bonding technique can have lasting effects into adulthood for your child.
Make sure you’re teaching by example. Your child is much more apt to learn behaviors when you exhibit these behaviors. It’s been proven that children learn by mimicking those around them. So if you’re telling your kids not to yell in the house and you’re doing it, they’re more likely to follow what you do than what you say.
Parenting is one of the hardest jobs there is. You will want to remain firm with your children, but it is just as important to be fair, honest and, most importantly, consistent. Once you have a good handle on these concepts, then you have a good foundation for effective parenting techniques.
When you have an infant, it is important that you keep an eye on your child at all times. At this stage in their life they cannot take care of themselves. Without keeping an eye on them they could get away with something that could injure them or possible kill them. For example,they could put something in their mouths and obstruct their esophagus.
As you buckle your child into his or her car seat, you should check to ensure that the shoulder straps are snug – not tight enough to cause red marks or indentations, but not loose enough that the child could wiggle out of the harness. To check whether or not the shoulder restraints are too loose or tight, try to pinch the straps together above the buckle. You should not be able to pinch them together.
In conclusion, it’s up to the parent whether to allow their teenager access to a car. While it may help a person mature, and give a certain measure of independence by granting them the freedom to go anywhere, it’s also a potential gateway to harmful factors. Dependent on your child’s maturity, you should make an assessment of their ability an their responsibility when it comes to driving.